bird by bird, by anne lamott

There seem to be as many books about how to write as there are actual writers, yet Anne Lamott makes a solid if not altogether inspiring contribution to the collection. Also known for her non-fiction books dealing with depression, Christianity, and alcoholism, in Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life author Lamott turns her humor and autobiographical lens toward offering sage advice and inspiration for writers of all levels. While far from Strunk and White’s The Elements of Style, and mute on the meter of poetry and the tropes of science fiction, Lamott instead focuses more on psychological issues that confront and haunt writers from all genres, such as defeating the blank page, avoiding perfectionism obsessions, cranking out that first draft, and writing for the right reasons.

A breadth of writing advice, Bird by Bird gets its title from wisdom Lamott’s father once gave to her brother, incapacitated by the task of writing a school essay on birds. The senior Lamott advised the younger to break the assignment down into manageable chunks: “Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.” Divided into five parts, in part one Lamott first addresses writing itself—getting words onto the page. Lamott starts by giving the aspiring author permission to write and then by encouraging the author to just get the words onto the page. Go ahead, just create that first, messy draft: “Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts. You need to start somewhere.” She then suggests focusing more on creating compelling characters than worrying about plot: “If you focus on who the people in your story are, if you sit and write about two people you know and are getting to know better day by day, something is bound to happen.” She even discusses a short story template—action, background, development, climax, ending—that can be used as an initial story structure. Dialog is important too, and compelling dialog can be influenced by real-life encounters, but the main goal is to get that first draft written, in short steps, a little each day.

In part Two Lamott talks about the writing frame of mind—about how authors can psyche themselves into writing using rituals at the beginning of each writing session and by believing in the stories they are telling. Part Three presents specific tools authors can use to help recall memorable quotes and scenes, how to collect new material, and how to gain feedback on drafts, such as using index cards on which to jot down ideas, joining or forming writing groups and sending drafts to a short-list of people an author trusts to give honest and useful feedback, and overcoming writer’s block by refilling the author’s emptiness through short exercises just to get the fingers moving. In part Four Lamott talks about the publication process and why an author simply giving herself to the writing act in and of itself is often the best reward: “There is no cosmic importance to your getting something published, but there is in learning to be a giver.” Part Five contains final words of wisdom and encouragement for the budding author. For example, an author should not hesitate to use experiences from their childhood (and tips are given on how to avoid libel when using autobiographical material).

Overall, rather than being the strict writing schoolmarm, Lamott is more like a writing companion. She chats over your shoulder with you at the end of the day, sipping a glass of wine, reflecting on her own experiences in the writing trenches, and sharing what worked for her in achieving success. Her advice is true and her voice is encouraging—she uses self-deprecating humor to convince any reader that their writing anguish is neither new nor unique since Lamott herself has likely already confronted and conquered those same demons. She persevered and achieved success, and the reader of her book too shall overcome and get their story onto the page. She mentions God throughout, but she does not come across as preachy. Again, she’s relating what worked for her, using anecdotes from memorable episodes in her life. There’s no magic and no divine inspiration to solve writing problems—she uses real techniques and encouragement to help confront and conquer the blank page.

Indeed, we can all use encouragement and insights from someone who’s already been there. Like the oft-repeated “Practice, practice, practice” response by legendary pianist Arthur Rubinstein when he was stopped on a street in New York and was asked, “Pardon me sir, how do you get to Carnegie Hall?”, Lamott’s response to writers in Bird by Bird is just as wise and true, but perhaps even more motivational due to her humor and honest expression from the trenches.

Available on Amazon: Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life, by Anne Lamott